15 Traits of a Man you Should NOT Marry
Nature of a man
No matter how much we try, we can never ever change the nature of a man. So it’s best to never get involved with a maniac and save your own self. Our life partners play a major role in our personality as marriage is the most important decision of our lives. If you are married to a gem of a man, your life will surely change for the better; but if you are stuck with a psycho, you will eventually go mad with him.
Different types of men
With age and experience, one learns about different types of people. At a younger age, we are vulnerable and are not able to differentiate. It is harder to catch signs early in a relationship as potential husbands are trying to be at their best behaviour. One of the traits of a narcissist is that he acts very charming so watch out as you may be falling for the wrong one!
Charming bad boys make terrible husbands
15 Traits of a man you should NOT marry
1. Atheist or Agnostic
I am a strong believer of the fact that we get our values from religion and its teachings. A person who does not believe in God, can do anything he wants. I was watching the movie ‘Don’t breathe’ in Daewoo bus last week and there was a dialog in it ‘a person who does not believe in God can do anything he wants’. It is so true and therefore we should find out about his belief in God. He must have strong values if he is a good man.
A person who has an excessive admiration for himself. He thinks the world revolves around him and he can do and live however he wants. He has a false impression of himself which he loves to project to others. He acts very charming but has unstable emotions. A narcissist interrupts conversations and wants to be the center of attention always.
4. Complex personality
Some people have an over-thinking disease where they constantly compare themselves to others. They are affected by inferiority complex and are worried sick about how people judge them. In reality they are the ones who judge. They are obsessed by materialistic worldly possessions and are in a race where they want more and more. Deep down they know their own flaws and they are badly affected by it. If they have a smaller house or car than others, they will stop meeting them and start hating them for what they have. It is very difficult to spend a lifetime with such maniacs.
6. Control freak
8. Hatred for your family
Your family deserves all your love and respect but if your fiance/spouse gets offended every time you spend quality time with them, your alarm bells should be ringing. There is absolutely no reason why there should be hatred for your family. If a guy doesn’t like you to even speak to your family, there is definitely something wrong with him.
9. Discourages your interests
10. Discourages socialising in your circles
12. Baby of the family
Some people have a habit of only looking at the glass half empty. They are not raised to see the goodness in life. They have a negative aura around them and the places they live are very dark and dingy.
Its a brain disorder which causes unusual shifts in mood, activity levels and energy in carrying out day to day tasks. There are many types of this disorder. In some cases a person may feel very high and energetic and some may go into depression.
15. Mister Gutless
A wife needs a man who can protect her and stand up for her even when the whole world is against her. A gutless man will never stick up for his wife even when he knows she is right. He wants to be Mr. Goody good in front of the whole world especially his family and doesn’t have the guts to speak up for his wife even in the most trying times.